Why Swifties might be onto something bigger than just good music

You’ve probably heard about Taylor Swift fans, or “Swifties” as they call themselves. Maybe you think they’re a bit much. However, before you judge, let’s look at what they’re actually doing right.

These fans aren’t just screaming at concerts. They’re building a lifestyle that psychologists say is surprisingly healthy. In fact, they’re mastering life skills that many of us struggle with.

Here’s what we can learn from them.

Most people listen to music casually. They put on whatever’s playing on the radio. But Swifties are different. They choose their soundtrack intentionally.

Think about your favorite song. How does it make you feel? Probably pretty good, right? Now imagine having hundreds of songs that make you feel that way. That’s what Swifties have created for themselves.

Research backs this up. Music therapist Lorrie Kubicek found that listening to music you love actually improves your health. Her studies show that music interventions create significant improvements in mental health. Physical health gets a boost too. (Kubicek, 2022)

When Swifties play “Shake It Off” on repeat, they’re not just being obsessive. They’re practicing self-care. They’ve figured out that the right music can change their entire day. Meanwhile, many of us settle for background noise.

This teaches us something important. We should be more intentional about our music choices. The songs we hear shape our mood. Choose wisely, and you’ll feel better throughout the day.

Swifties spend serious money on concerts. Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour made $2 billion. (Roeloffs, 2024) That’s billion with a B. People traveled across countries just to see her perform. They paid thousands for tickets.

Some folks called this crazy. But financial experts disagree. They say Swifties are making smart choices with their money.

Financial therapist Steven M. Hughes explains why experiences matter more than stuff. “Think about a concert you’ve been to,” he says. “The best dinner you’ve had, the best vacation you’ve been on. These are experiences that pay dividends time and time again.”

You probably can’t remember the last shirt you bought. But you remember that amazing concert from five years ago. That’s the difference between buying things and buying experiences.

Swifties understand this instinctively. They’d rather have memories than merchandise. They choose moments over material items. This makes them happier in the long run.

Here’s something surprising. Going to concerts can literally extend your life. A study by behavioral science expert Patrick Fagan found that attending just one concert every two weeks could increase life expectancy by nine years. (Fagan, 2018)

The research showed that 20 minutes at a concert boosts well-being by 21%. That’s higher than yoga or walking your dog. (Fagan, 2018) Swifties who attended multiple Eras Tour shows basically gave themselves a longevity boost.

But it’s not just about being there. It’s about what happens during the show. Swifties don’t just sit and listen. They dance, they sing, they move their whole bodies. A typical Taylor Swift concert runs about three hours.

According to fitness experts, someone weighing 150 pounds burns over 1,000 calories dancing for three hours. That’s like running 10 miles. (“How many calories do you burn with Dancing? – Calorie Burn Calculator”, n.d.) Except it’s way more fun than running.

This shows us that exercise doesn’t have to be boring. You don’t need a gym membership to stay fit. Sometimes the best workout is just dancing to music you love.

Loneliness is a huge problem today. Many people feel isolated and disconnected. But Swifties rarely have this issue. They’ve built one of the strongest communities in the world.

Think about it. The Eras Tour had over 10 million attendees. (“Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour — now over — by the numbers”, 2024) That’s just people who made it to the shows. Millions more connect online through fan accounts and social media groups.

Psychologist Nicole Celestine explains why this matters. “Communities shape the way we live, work, and thrive,” she says. “They affect our well-being, give us a sense of belonging.” (“Why so many of us love Taylor Swift”, 2024)

Swifties have created a space where they feel comfortable being themselves. They share inside jokes, decode song lyrics together, and support each other through tough times. They’ve built what positive psychologists call a “nurturing community.”

Most of us could learn from this. Instead of just consuming content alone, we should find our tribes. Whether it’s through hobbies, interests, or shared values, human connection is essential for happiness.

Taylor Swift is famous for writing about her feelings. Her songs cover everything from heartbreak to joy to anger. Swifties don’t just listen to these emotions. They learn to express their own.

This is actually really important. Many people struggle with something called alexithymia. That’s a fancy word for difficulty identifying and expressing emotions. It’s linked to mental health problems like PTSD. (Frewen, 2006)

By watching Swift be vulnerable in her music, Swifties learn it’s okay to feel things deeply. They see that emotions aren’t something to hide. They’re something to understand and express.

Licensed therapist Alli Spotts-De Lazzer notes that Swift’s music offers “comfort and coping” for fans. “Having and using healthy coping skills is a huge part of mental wellness,” she explains. (“7 Reasons Taylor Swift Is Good For Her Fans’ Mental Health”, 2024)

This teaches us that emotional expression is a skill. The more we practice it, the better we get at managing our feelings. Swifties are getting a masterclass in emotional intelligence just by being fans.

Here’s something cool about Taylor Swift’s music. She has songs for every possible feeling. Happy? Try “22.” Sad? “All Too Well” (10-minute version). Angry? “Bad Blood.” Confused about love? Take your pick from dozens of options.

Swifties have essentially created a emotional toolkit through music. Whatever they’re feeling, they have a song that matches. This helps them process emotions in a healthy way.

Most of us don’t have this kind of musical vocabulary. We might have one or two go-to songs. But Swifties have built entire playlists for different moods and situations.

This is smart self-care. Music can help us understand what we’re feeling. It can also help us move through difficult emotions. Having a variety of songs means having more tools for emotional regulation.

We should all build our own mood-based playlists. Create collections for when you’re stressed, excited, nostalgic, or motivated. Your future self will thank you.

Taylor Swift doesn’t just make music. She also gives speeches and shares life advice. Swifties collect these moments like treasures. They turn to Swift’s words when they need encouragement.

For example, Swift once said: “We have to live bravely in order to truly feel alive, and that means not being ruled by our greatest fears.” That’s solid life advice from anyone, celebrity or not.

Research shows that positive affirmations and motivational messages actually change our brains. A study in Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience found that self-affirmations restore confidence and self-worth. (Cascio, 2016)

Swifties have access to a constant stream of these positive messages. They don’t wait for motivation to strike. They actively seek it out through their favorite artist’s words.

This teaches us about the power of positive input. We become what we consume mentally. If we regularly expose ourselves to encouraging messages, we’ll think more positively. It’s that simple.

Perhaps the biggest lesson from Swifties is this: they don’t care if people judge them. They know some folks think their devotion is silly. They do it anyway because it makes them happy.

This is actually a superpower. Most of us spend way too much energy worrying about what others think. We hold ourselves back from things we enjoy because we’re afraid of judgment.

Swifties have figured out that life’s too short for that nonsense. They dress up in sparkles for concerts. They scream song lyrics with thousands of strangers. They analyze every Instagram post for hidden meanings.

And you know what? They’re having a blast while the rest of us worry about looking cool.

This doesn’t mean we should all become obsessive fans. But we should all care less about other people’s opinions. When something brings you genuine joy, pursue it. Don’t let imaginary judgment stop you from being happy.

Look, you don’t have to become a Swiftie. But you can learn from what they’re doing right. They’ve accidentally stumbled onto some of the best practices for mental health and happiness.

They prioritize experiences over possessions. They build strong communities. They express emotions openly. They take care of their physical health through dancing. They consume positive, motivational content regularly.

These aren’t just fan behaviors. These are life skills. And they’re skills that many of us could use more of.

So maybe it’s time to stop rolling our eyes at passionate fans. Instead, let’s ask: what can we learn from people who’ve found something that makes them this happy?

The answer might surprise you. In a world full of negativity and stress, maybe we all need to shake it off a little more.

You don’t need to love Taylor Swift to apply these lessons. Here’s how to start:

Choose Your Soundtrack Intentionally: Create playlists for different moods. Use music as a tool for emotional regulation.

Invest in Experiences: Save money for concerts, trips, or activities that create lasting memories. Buy fewer things, do more stuff.

Find Your Community: Look for people who share your interests. Join clubs, online groups, or local meetups.

Express Your Emotions: Don’t bottle up feelings. Talk, write, or find other healthy ways to process what you’re going through.

Consume Positive Content: Fill your social media feeds with inspiring messages. Read books that motivate you. Listen to podcasts that make you think.

Stop Caring So Much About Others’ Opinions: Do what makes you happy, even if it’s not “cool.” Life’s too short to live for other people’s approval.

The Swifties might be onto something after all. They’ve built a lifestyle around joy, community, and authentic self-expression. In today’s world, that’s not silly at all. It’s revolutionary.

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